Main problem of Married Life

jsjdy osjsfha ;Dma;shg ndOd lrk m%Odk fya;=

ñksiqka ia;%S mqreI fomd¾Yjhu ish Ôú; ld,h ;=< úúO wdYajdohka" ;Dma;Ska yUd h;s'  fïjd fndfyduhla wm ksielfhkau Wreu lr .;a Ôú;h iy ixy;sh mj;ajd f.khdfï wjYH;dj u; ysñ jQ foah' wdydr wjYH;djh iy wdydrfhka ;Dma;su;a ùu ta i|yd tla WodyrKhls'

,sx.sl wjYH;djh iy ,sx.sl ;Dma;sho ;j;a tjekakls' wjdikdjlg fuka flfkl=g Ôú;fha iuyr wjia:dj,§ uqyqK §ug isÿjk ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh fya;=fldg wUq - ieñ fom,g ,sx.sl ;Dma;sh wysñ ùu isÿfjhs'

fuu ;;a;ajh fld;rï nrm;< fõo h;a iuyr wjia:dj,§ wkshï in|;dj,g uq,a msÍug fukau mjq,a Ôú; foord hdugo fya;= jkq oelsh yelsh' ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh ke;skï bx.S‍%isfhka —filaIqh,a bïfmdfgkais˜ f,i ye¢kafjk ;;a;aj we;s jkqfha tlu fya;=jla ksid fkdfõ'

th mqoa.,hdf.ka mqoa.,hdg fjkiajk ;;a;ajhls' WodyrK f,i jhig hdu;a iuÕ ,sx.sl wdYdjka ys hï ksySknjla we;sùu idudkHh' fndfyda jhia.; wh fuu iajNdúl ;;a;ajh f;areï .ks;s' fuhg wu;rj ldxidj" fi!LHuh .eg¨‍" fyda¾fudakuh widudkH;d" iylre iy iyldßhla Wkkaÿjla fkdue;slu jeks ;;a;ajhlao fuhg odhl úh yelsh'

,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg n,mdk fya;=

,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg uq,ajk fi!LHuh fya;= w;r reêr ixirK ÿ¾j,;d" iakdhq.; wdndO" yDo frda." mqriaÓ .%kaÓ ms<sld hkdÈh oelsh yelsh' iuyr T!IO j¾. .ekSu ÿïmdkh" wêl u;ameka mdkh" fgiagiagfrdaka fyda¾fudak i%djh wvqùu wd§ fya;=kao fuys§ ie,ls,a,g ,la l< hq;= fõ' tfiau ;u ,sx.sl fn,ySk;d m%Yakhg lsisfia;au iïnkaO ke;ehs Tn is;kd iuyr fya;=o fuys§ oelsh yelsjk wjia:d tugh' tjeks fya;= lsysmhla fufiah'

Èhjeähdj

reêrfhys .a¨‍fldaia ^f,a j, iSks& iys; ke;skï Èhjeähdfjka fmf<k wh tfia fkdfmf<k whg jvd ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djfhka fm<Sug we;s bvlv fo;=ka .=Khlska by<h' reêrfhys we;s iSks uÜgu ksisf,i md,kh fkdl<fyd;a iakdhq iy reêr kd,j,g isÿjk ydksj, m%;sM,h f,i th oelaúh yelsh'

wê reêr mSvkh

,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh" úfYaIfhkau mqreI bkaøshh Rcq fkdùug n,mdk m%Odk fya;=jla f,i reêr kd, fi!LHh ÿ¾j,ùu iy m%udKj;a reêrh iemhSula isÿ fkdùu ms<s.efkhs' md,kh fkdjQ wêreêr mSvkh isref¾ reêr kd, j,g ydkslr tajdfha m%;Hia:;djh ^wefËk iq¿ nj& wvq lrhs' túg blaukska reêrh f.khdug tjeks kd, wiu;a fjhs'

tfiau wêl reêr mSvkhg m%;sldr jYfhka ,ndfok iuyr T!IO fya;=fjkao ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh we;sfjhs' fuys§ wêl reêr mSvkhg ,ndfok T!IO fkdf.k isàu;a wfmalaId fkdlrk w;r wod< ;;a;ajh ffjoHjrhd iuÕ l;dlr T!IO udre lsÍu isÿlr .; yelsh' tfiau iqÿiq fi!LHu;a wdydr fõ,la .ekSu" jHdhdu lsÍu wdÈh uÕskao reêr mSvkh my< oud fnfy;a j,ska hemSu wvql< yelsh'

ùÿreuia frda.

Tn úÿreuia frda.hlska fmf<a kï - úÿreuia bÈóu" úÿreuiaj,ska f,a .e,Su" úÿreuia Èhùu th Tnf.a iuia; fi!LH ;;a;ajfha wvqjla fmkajd fohs' thg fya;=j úÿreuia frda. we;sùug reêr ixirKfha ÿ¾j,;d mej;sh yels ksidh' tfyhska fujeks uqL frda. ;;a;ajhla ;sîu" ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhgo fya;=jk nj m¾fhaIlfhda mji;s' tfiau úÿreuia frda. ;sîu yDohdndO flfryso n,mdk neúka tu ;;a;ajho ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg uq,ajk idOlhls'

Tn .kakd T!IO j¾.

wêl reêr mSvkh" Èhjeähdj" yDo frda." jl=.vq frda. wd§ frda. .Kkdjlg ,ndfok T!IO ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg fya;= ldrl úh yels nj m%lg lreKls' tfy;a thg jvd mqriaÓ .%kaÓfha l%shdldÍ;ajfha widudkH;d ÿr,Sug" ysiflia jeãug ,ndfok iuyr T!IO j¾. i;= m%Odk w;=re wdndOhla f,i ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh ms<s.efkhs'

nhsisl,a Y+rhka

Tn i;shlg meh 3l ld,hla muK nhsisl,a mÈk nhsisl,a Y+rfhlao@ ihsl,a wiqfkys b|f.k thg nrù nhsislf,a mÈk úg YsIakh fj;g reêrh f.k hk reêr kd, iy iakdhq flfrys hï mSvkhla we;s lrhs' fuuÕska reêr kd, iy iakdhq j,g isÿjk ydks fuu bkaøshh fj; flfrk reêrh .e,Su wvq lsÍu ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg fya;= úh yels nj ie,flhs' tla wOHhkhla wkqj nhsisl,a Y+rhka w;ßka ishhg 4la muK ,sx.sl fn,ySkd;jhg ,laj we;snj fy<sj we;'

úIdofhka fmf<kakka

úIdoh fyj;a udkisl wjmSvk ;;a;ajfhka wm w;ßka fndfyda fofkl= iuyrúg ishhg 50 -60 la muK fmf<;s' fuu ;;a;ajh ,sx.sl ld¾hhka i|yd jk Wkkaÿj ySk lsßug muKla fkdj we;sjk ffcj- ridhksl n,mEï ksid ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djho n,mEï ksid ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhgo fya;= ldrl jk nj ffjoH m¾fhaIKfhda mji;s'

tmuKla fkdj úIdohg m%;sldr jYfhka ,ndfok fidfrdfgdksla ksfIaOl T!IO ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djh we;s lrk nj m<fjhs' tfiau m%Ydka;sl T!IO .kakd ia;%S - mqreIhka w;ßka ishhg 50la muK ,sx.sl fn,ySk;djhg ,laùfï ;¾ckhg ,laj isá;s'

ieñhdf.a ñ;=rka ´kEjg jeäh ms‍%h lsÍu


udkisluh fya;= ,sx.sl wdYajdoh yd ,sx.sl yelshdj flfrys n,mdk njg ielhla ke;' Tnf.a ìß|" Tfí ñ;=rka iuÕ Tng;a jvd l=¿m.j weiqre lsÍu ksid Tfí is; ;=< WmÈk B¾IsHdj" ielh yd ffjrh ksid ,sx.sl msì§ula ,eîu Tng wiSre úh yels nj fï ms<sn| m¾fhaIK isÿl< úoHd{fhda okajd isá;s'

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